The Power of Repair: Healing After Parent-Child Conflict

No parent-child relationship is perfect. Arguments, misunderstandings, and tough days happen in every family. What matters most isn’t avoiding conflict, but how we come back together afterward.

Why Repair Matters 
Repairing after a disagreement teaches children that relationships can survive tough moments - and that love is stronger than anger or frustration. It also models humility, accountability, and emotional growth.

How to Practice Repair: 
- Apologise sincerely when you’ve made a mistake, even if it feels awkward. 
- Invite your child to share their feelings, and listen without defensiveness. 
- Reaffirm your love and commitment: “No matter what, I’m here for you.” 
- Use repair as a learning moment: “What can we do differently next time?”

A New Family Culture 
Every repair is a chance to build trust and model emotional resilience for your child. Over time, this creates a family culture where mistakes are opportunities for growth and connection, not shame or distance.